I am Zobia Memon, an international student from Pakistan. I was born and raised in the small city of Larkana, Sindh. My journey to education began with a roundtable discussion at my home, where my family debated whether to send me to a coed college.

The idea of allowing their oldest daughter to study in a coed setting at the college level filled them with doubt. But then, my mother spoke. She stood up for me, placing her trust in me when my family wavered. That single moment of courage from her shaped my future in ways she never imagined. It was her belief in me that led me to the USA.

I was nervous and anxious on my flight to Portland, traveling alone for the first time. The airport was crowded, and the atmosphere felt tense. Everything I had been taught about Americans, how they respect privacy, make eye contact, and maintain personal space, flashed through my mind. I feared I would never connect, imagining people as reserved and distant. But everything changed when I arrived at Linfield. Here, I experienced real America, one that was far different from the image I had in my mind.

I met incredible people who immediately made me feel at home. I was struck by the everyday American courtesy—how strangers would smile and greet me as they passed by. The small gestures that made me feel welcome, like people holding doors open for me until I entered. On my most stressful days, the kindness around me seemed to melt away my worries.

Whenever I needed help, all I had to do was reach out. My friends, professors, and the International Program Office (IPO) were always there to support me. I formed meaningful connections, and spending time with them has been one of the highlights of my experience.

America is incredibly diverse, and so is the campus. I have had the pleasure of meeting people from various cultural backgrounds, and these interactions have sparked a deeper curiosity in me to know more about the world. The people I met on campus and the friendships I formed have made my experience abroad exceptionally beautiful and fulfilling.

I attended the Japanese club’s Soba Noodles, where I learned about this traditional Japanese dish, “Soba,” which is served on New Year’s Eve, symbolizing longevity and a prosperous year ahead. I also went on a trip to the Newport Aquarium with the Linfield Environment and Pride Club. On the way there, I was amazed by the massive, windy coastline.

Having lived in Karachi, Pakistan, and seen the sea, I thought I had seen it all, but this coast was much bigger and more beautiful. At the aquarium, I met some amazing people, and the sea life on display was absolutely stunning. It was my first time visiting an aquarium, and I saw seahorses, jellyfish, starfish and fish just like Nemo! The whole experience was unforgettable, and I returned with even more cherished memories.

I am grateful to Linfield for assigning me a host family in America. Lisa and Parish invited me to a hotpot party, where I got to try Japanese shabu-shabu. It is a gathering where everyone cooks together, and eating from the common pot symbolizes connection and togetherness. It was a wonderful experience, not just because of the food, but also because it gave me the chance to learn about Japanese culture. My friends patiently taught me how to use chopsticks, but when it was time to eat, I ended up using a spoon! It was a fun and memorable experience.

My favorite time to walk around campus is in the evening because I get to see pets everywhere. I am particularly touched by the deep love Americans have for their pets. In the evenings, it is common on campus to see pet owners walking their cute pets. I have seen a variety of cat and dog breeds on the campus, many of which I had only seen in pictures.

Talking about university life without mentioning classes does not fully capture the experience. While the education system here is similar to what I am used to, what stands out most is the strong connection between professors and students. I was surprised to learn that I could call some professors by their first names, which is uncommon in my country.

Professors are very supportive, which has made my studies fun and enjoyable. Another surprising aspect is the informal interaction with authority figures, like professors and administrators. The International Program Office (IPO) organizes a tea hour every Thursday, where even the IPO director sits with students.

I also had the privilege of interviewing the interim president of Linfield, Dr. Rebecca L. Johnson. Our insightful conversation about leadership journey, goals and styles left me inspired, especially her advice.

“Follow your passion, or you may achieve success but not happiness,” said Johnson.

I also presented her with an “Ajrak,” a cultural gift from my country, which she genuinely appreciated.

My academic advisor, Wendy Sagers, connected me with community service opportunities, and I completed 33 hours of service in a month at a church and Potter School. I worked at the Potter School, Linfield, under Angie Gurley, where I gained experience teaching kindergarten students. It was a heartwarming experience, connecting with the children. The kindergarten here is completely different from Pakistan’s. It encourages children to learn through stories rather than simply saying “no,” which promotes an engaging learning experience for the kids.

I live in the HPs, an apartment complex where I have my own room but share the space with three amazing roommates. I still remember my first day, with everything from the machines to the appliances being new to me. My roommate Klaira, who is on Linfield’s wrestling team, helped me settle in, and I am proud of her. Vaniya supported me with managing my studies and introduced me to the most delicious yogurt. Elise, my other roommate, is always sweet and greets me with a smile. Their kindness has made my stay here more special and easier.

This campus has been filled with unforgettable memories. I saw my first snowfall here, and it was magical. Whenever anyone sees me wearing my Linfield shirt, they must know that I am in love with the campus and the people. As I prepare to return to Pakistan, I carry with me not only the valuable experiences I have gained but also the endless love and warmth I have received during my stay in the United States. I am thankful to everyone around me for giving me the best time of my life.